In June of 2013, I went to my first doctor visit in 20 years. I was morbidly obese and pre-diabetic. By October of 2014, I ran my first marathon and then ran 12 marathons in 12 months. I run them as often as I can now.
My doctor suggested I write a blog about my weight loss journey as it may encourage others. She made the suggestion in January of 2015. The entries before June of 2015 are taken from my own notes and recollections of what was happening in my life at that time. Everything after June of 2015 was written contemporaneously.
This blog is the story of how I went from 280 lbs in June, 2013 to 154 lbs in June, 2014 . . . and now I kind of kick around the 140’s – and am happy about that.
I also want to take this opportunity to acknowledge that I didn’t do this on my own. My wife and kids hear a constant pounding from the downstairs each night. It’s the treadmill. They have allowed me to put the time in to get healthy and I am grateful for that.
My primary care physician and nutritionist were very important as well. Dr. Jennifer Reich from Middletown Medical was just the right combination of “I’m going to scare the heck out of you” with “I really want you to succeed.” I am grateful she took my blood at my first appointment, then used those results to scare me into changing.
Laura Greaney, my nutritionist, gave sound advice and helped construct a food schedule for a very chaotic lifestyle. Lastly, thanks to my and my wife’s good friend Dr. Michele, whose legs are even shorter than mine, but who convinced me I could run my first marathon and helped get me through it.
People ask me what I’ve learned going from “morbidly obese to marathon runner”. Here, in no particular order, are 24 things I’ve learned in 24 months:
1. It’s not too late to start. Just because most of your life was spent overweight, obese, or even morbidly obese, doesn’t mean it has to end that way. Your life is now.
2. As your fat goes away you will feel hard things below your chest – they are supposed to be there. They are called ribs.
3. You are going to relapse. You will eat some bad food. Maybe even a lot of it. Don’t beat yourself up and don’t give up. Get back on the treadmill and do an EXTRA few miles. Now you are even for the day. It’s like the sin never happened. The extra exercise is like confession, except for the body.
4. When you sleep on your side, your knees will hurt because it’s bone on bone not fat on fat. It hurts a bit at first. Deal with it.
5. The most miserable thing to do at the start of the diet is to exercise. As you go on and are successful, the most miserable thing to do is to skip a night of exercise.
6. An hour at Planet Fitness is better than an hour at Planet Wings.
7. You can have TWO bowls of Cheerios with Almond or skim milk, and an apple, and you’ve still had LESS calories and fats than just one bagel.
8. There are people who can’t run. Be grateful you can. Think of what those who can’t, would give to be able to do it, just once.
9. You really don’t miss soda.
10. Low fat Greek yogurt – blueberry or cherry or vanilla is much better than a bagel for breakfast. South beach diet bars are delicious substitutes for candy.
11. When you make hotel reservations you look to see if they have a fitness center first. Yes, even before checking the free breakfast buffet . . . It’s a good thing.
12. When you can coach your kid’s team instead of eating a bagel on the sidelines, it’s worth it.
13. You can have more fun with your spouse. Lots more fun. Get your head out of the gutter, I didn’t mean it that way. Ok. Maybe I did.
14. Your family will have to sacrifice as part of your diet. They will lose you to a treadmill or gym but ultimately gain much more of you back, even though there is less of you. But they are sacrificing too.
15. Get the bread off the table. It is your enemy. No bagels. No butter. Fight the carbs.
16. Almost everything else in moderation. Yes, including pizza.
17. You don’t miss sugar with your coffee if you add some sugar free flavoring.
18. That thing with the belt that goes at a certain speed with rails on the side is actually not a place to hang clothes on. It’s a treadmill. Use it.
19. You can watch The Biggest Loser without embarrassment.
20. Your blood sugar score is not to be feared.
21. Your life insurance costs drop. A lot.
22. You will probably live longer, but even if not, you will live better.
23. After you start losing weight, particularly if you lose a lot, some people you only see once in a while won’t recognize you. Some of my wife’s family I see just once a year thought she remarried. Some were even happy about that.
24. After the pounds start to drop off, you might be annoyed that you didn’t start earlier. Not meaning to annoy you, people will ask you “now don’t you wish you did this years ago”. Don’t be annoyed. You weren’t ready to start yet. Whatever got you started, at whatever point in life you did, be happy. YOU started. Congratulations.
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I’m overweight by a lot and just started running. Out of all the stuff I have read on the Internet this has been the most motivational
Thanks Ray – just keep at it. Let me know when you are ready for your first marathon!
This touched my heart and made me laugh. I’m so glad I came across this post. I typed in Google “can obese people run marathons?” and stumbled upon so much encouragement and inspiration. Thank you for sharing these thoughts and experiences through your weight loss journey. I’m 20lbs down out of the 130lbs I need to lose and have been doing it by simply running on a treadmill and trying so hard to stave away sugar and carbs. Part of me has been scared of what to expect or what I will look like since I’ve been obese all of my adult life. You’re comments were heart warming and made me feel a lot less scared about the changes I will experience. Again, thank you!!!!
Thanks Vic. Just keep at it. I pretty much stopped updating this blog due to life being busy but running is part of my life everyday. Did my first 140 mile Ironman in 9/2018 and fight food cravings EVERY SINGLE DAY. The weight though remains off. Just keep at it!
Oct 2019 256 lbs, I am now June 2022 195 Lbs, went from barely running the track one time to my first half marathon May 2022 in 2:24. I want to get down to 170 lbs, thats my dream, realistically I would be happy with 180 lbs. Keep moving, eat better, so simple it seems lol.
You go Cliff. Everyday is more success.